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Old 03-13-2012, 01:50 PM
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KelleyF
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I'm sure your husband does miss you and his children*
And I understand your thoughts that he might have a more successful treatment if he were at home with you for love and support. *But you were all home with him when he was using before; it didn't make him stop did it?

I think you really need to make your decision based on what you really feel is best for you and your 3 children.

If he comes home right now, there are many uncertainties about his future. *Will he really start the program, will he finish it? *What happens if he doesn't? *What will he do after the program ends? You and the kids dont want to be back to square one.

Your husband has to make his own decision to end his drug use; but since you and the kids are a huge part of his life; *returning home healthy to you and the kids I would think to be a huge incentive.*

Stand your ground; once he completes treatment and shows signs of real change - then talk about reconciliation.*
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