I also wanted to say that if you have no job, cash, food money, childcare, you may want to immediately apply for assistance form the state. That way you will at least have something for now. That is assuming you have kids, but you can get food stamps even if you don't have kids-- I didn't think that you may have meant "family" as in you and your husband. If so, my bad
....and please please please look for a Naranon meeting. You will get support there from people in the same boat that have experience.