Yeah he went to work. It was on my way to my job and I picked him up at night. He was covered in dirt and sweat so it seemed like he really worked. It seemed he couldn't cope at work. He feels very entitled, that he works hard so they should pay him more or I should do his laundry and make him food while he treats me like ****. I can trace all this back to his childhood etc but he doesn't. He refuses to get help and doesn't seem to want to change. He is very adamant about his recovery but it seems like an excuse. He said this morning he doesn't want to commit to anything because he wants to do what he wants. So I am moving on with my life.