Old 03-09-2012, 06:20 AM
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cece1960
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Just a thought TBH, but why don't you continue the no contact and think about this later? He has a lot of work to do, and speculating the outcome does nothing to make it a reality.
I found that no contact allows us to clear our heads and prevent manipulation and vulnerability. You say you wouldn't take him back this soon anyways, so why promise things you may not feel later? Down the road, you may not want to start things back up, regardless of how he's doing.
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