My son went to an SLE after graduating a 4 month in patient structured rehab program (considered the hardest one in our city by the courts). He is living with 10 people/ co ed. He is expected to pay his rent, work, clean up after himself and follow the rules.
If he uses, he is immediately kicked out. I have noticed that my son is much harder than he used to be when using drugs. he is quite arrogant and thinks he has all of the answers. I would rather he learn how to live with others if this is his true nature, than suppress his emotions and succomb to living with us, which is destined for failure.
I understand that he is an adult, I need to leave him to his choices. Sober living is also his choice.
Its only been a few weeks so I really dont have any other feedback to share yet.