Originally Posted by
blackandblue 
Dear Wing,
It is normal to love the people we love. The problem is that we are loving someone that does not love themselves meaning their identity is shaky at best. So who is the person that we love? We give to a black hole that needs to feed on someone who will give endlessly. ...
Dear blackandblue,
You are right and your writing is so beautiful and touching with all these metaphor... I totally understand and feel it. Thanks.
Originally Posted by FindingJoy
Please don't beat yourself up for a set back...they happen to teach us something.
thanks FindingJoy, yes,,, my dear friends told me to call them whenever I feel weak and want to get the fix. Friends are important and I feel lucky to have manynice friends