Originally Posted by
YearForMe 
many have pulled a "geographical" and funny thing is...it usually works IF you really leave it all behind and start over.....like it was all just a bad dream.
"no matter where you go....there YOU are"
So just remember to continue taking steps to keep yourself in a healthy place.
you are doing awesome....
And this all sucks. I know...I am in it too. 26 years together 23 married.
<<<-----Wants to run away from home......
I've done a geographical before, and it really helped me to heal, but it made my relationship with my family extremely strained. It took another 2 years after I came back to repair what I did to my family.
I know this transition is going to be extremely difficult on me, and I know my family is going to get involved in their dissapointment that this marriage didn't work out. I haven't even sent out my thank you notes for the gifts I received for my wedding yet.