Hate to tell you but recovery...even in a program is not all glitter and rainbows either.
Recovery itself is REALLY hard on a relationship..and family.
Most don't make it...not without the help of marriage therapy..and the like....(note: I said MOST..not ALL..)..just saying.
Your 8 sec bull ride ain't done yet. You're just in the qualifying round...you still have to go the long haul!