Thank you to everyone who gave me advice. It helps to know that there are people out there going through the same things. I consider myself lucky in a way for it not being any worse then what it is. I'm starting to realize that he does love me more then what I think and he is putting in an effort because if he didnt he wouldnt be sober for seven days now and he wouldnt have went in an great rehab facility today. I know i need some sort of counseling because if I dont get it, I will be sad and resentful the rest of my life and that is not what i want at all.
For those of you who asked or commented about it, I did not enable him. I never gave him money or a place to stay. He has a job and now I know where all his paycheck went. He always told me he had "bills" every week. and I was stupid enough to believe him.
I hope this helps him and everything will calm down. His uncle says he is doing better then most people he has tried to help. So i am hoping that is a good sign.