Originally Posted by
mebesusan Well..Where should i start.
I am the Daughter, sister, and neice of active and recovering drug addicts and alcoholics.
When you add girlfriend to that list, you have a lot of unhealthy learned thoughts and behaviors in your life to recover from. It's so insidious! Please consider finding a 12 step recovery group for you, maybe a therapist who specializes in addiction, too. Learn about self care and become self aware. Your life and the quality of it, depends on
you doing that for you.
If nothing else, look around the 12 step forum in this part of the board, and the ACOA forum.
You reaching out for help is the start of a balanced, healthy life