Thank you SpeedyJason
Like that MJ song; I'm learning all the things I never knew, I never knew..
Your words make me feel more positive about it; I'm going to go to the couples session, and then maybe I will consider doing something on my own; doesnt seem like it would be right to use the same Dr as BF; but I don't know about how it all works. I'm just going to try to stay open minded to the whole process.
P.S. Working on perfecting the cupcake recipe before sending one your way;
Poor BF he's my guniea pig. LOL