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Old 02-23-2012, 06:17 PM
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Once again I strongly believe TJP is right on target.
I have seen different types of counselors over the years but the free domestic violence center and counseling was of far greater value to me than some of the 129 per visit ones.
There is a book by Lundy Bancroft "Inside the Minds Of Controlling Men" that I cannot recommend strongly enough.
There is another very very good one but the author and name escape me at the moment, but they proved invaluable to me.
We are not being realistic when we expect them to have our perspective and think and act they way we do.
Abusive (this includes verbal and emotional.....and yes, kidnapping your daughter) men do not think in a manner that is even comprehensible to us. It takes alot of education, and time to recognize it and heal.
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