thanks a lot
outtolunch, I really appreciate your opinions and ideas!
Since I know I won't be able to talk to my Mom about this without getting emotional, I've written down a nice cue card for myself. I haven't given or read it to her yet, but I know I have to have something to refer to. I always use to let my emotions on the situation get the better of me, so this way I won't look like some babbling donkey.