Originally Posted by
Ken12 
thank you Kelley, I am doing just that but it so hard not to text her, call her or go see her. I can't stop thinking about her and praying that she is ok.
I know, sometimes love just hurts. Plain and simple
Did she go completely no contact?
You know was wondering; since you said she was a recovering addict (7 yrs)
Did you go into the relationship worrying about the possibility that she might relapse? ( and I'm not saying her actions have Anything/ to do with relapse; most likely they don't) - but I was just curious about how that played in your mind when you found out; and throughout your relationship
My BF had barely been clean for 2 months when I met him.
It's been almost a year now for us; and he has relapsed once.
But going into the relationship - I had never been around drugs or addiction, so I didn't really give it much thought; crazy I know .