Originally Posted by
tmaddict 
I, on the other hand, have this deep feeling of maybe I can get through to her. I need some advice, please. Thank you all for taking the time to read/respond.
She's had a tragic life and I understand how you want to try and make a difference. Know that some of this is your own ego. From my own experience, there was absolutely nothing I could say or do that could cause my daughter to stop. I was not that powerful. None of us are.
Recovery is 100% an inside job.
Having said this, it is the sort of thing that each of us has to learn from our own experiences. If you want to deal with the potential backlash from your husband, give it your best shot. Salvation Army operates a solid recovery program for those who are highly motivated to embrace recovery.
If you feel the need to do more, consider making a direct donation to the Salvation Army and know you can make a difference for those willing to help themselver.