Just a quick follow up question. Is it common for the addict to return from detox having it all figured out? The current point of contention is that she doesn't think I am open enough to seeing all the positive changes. My problem is, heard it all before, have seen it all before, and it has never been sustainable. So now I am the negative one again. Is this common behavior? It just doesn't make sense to me for the expectation to be Si forgive, forget and hop back in with both feet.