I agree, I am in a rural area and I have found online help here and in recommended readings. There are active online meetings too (7 days a week), but I haven't participated in one yet. Most of my family members would not be supportive of my decision to 'let go and let God' so I don't discuss it with them. In some ways I find that helpful, because I can have activities where he is not the constant focus.
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KuanYin 
This site and the nar-anon site has helped me trememdously to detach and to take care of me.