What I got out of this question was:
Geez, After 17 years of begging, crying & stomping my feet
and me saying over and over...
"Why cant you just have one drink, what the hell' is the matter with you?"
"Just stop drinking, is it really that important to you"
Im sure each story is slightly differenet, but the concept of this question/post
was to remind myself and my alanon friends here, that the way we think
about "stop" drinking is not the same for us and it is for them
Once I got that thru my head, it is different, it helped me alot.
It always a good little reminder to keep in my pocket and pull out, when I begin
to go crazy and ask myself..Why is he doing those things, or Why does
he continue to drink.....
Just a mental refresher course for me...