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Old 02-11-2012, 10:51 AM
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Loneywife
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Join Date: Feb 2012
Location: New York
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In law enabling behavior

I am intending on going to my first nar-anon meeting on Monday, but from what I've read here, my AH needs to be able to hot rock bottom and find his own way.

My in laws have brought him pills and money to buy pills for him. They've brought him to the hospital when he's overdosing and cushioning his fall. How can I live with myself, seeing my husband and marriage destroyed by his addiction and their enabling behavior?

I know I am probably part of the problem too, as I've also brought him to the hospital when he's overdosed, and he had access to our wedding money that I didn't protect well enough.

How can I deal with the anger towards my husband and in laws?
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