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Old 02-10-2012, 07:18 AM
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whyme123
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IMO, it comes from a combination of strength within, at your own time, when you just can't take it anymore. As codependents we even want to control, or at least I did, how long it will take to be able to forgive - detach - or be done. It's just not so, its a process. You can't run from your own head and you can't forgive until you are ready to, if you want to.

Kudos on going to therapy and working on you!!
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