The responses I got when I posed this last question are excellent and it really did break it down for me to step back, look at the basics, and begin again - as in, what do I want from a relationship? What am I willing to compromise on? And what is an absolute deal breaker?
Great, GREAT thought provoking questions that I will take this weekend to ponder. At least it will give me some guidelines that I can follow.
Thank you thank you thank you!