Glad you are staying away, Zoso.
Sometimes the program can make people too soft. We don't have to forgive everybody and we don't have to just see them as "hurting" when they do vicious, calculated things.
Casey Anthony was lethal. The man who just burned up his children this week was lethal. There are dangerous evil people in the world and when they get vicious, in my opinion, all of our kind understanding of their "woundedness" sets us and others up for total destruction.
So keep listening to your gut.