The girlfriend did press charges, but they arrested the wrong guy (same name) and for some reason that was not discovered until the night before trial. I'm assuming she was so mad at my AB (and ended up getting a default judgement against him, because he doesn't open his mail so I suppose he didn't know to go to court) that she never went to give an ID from a line up (well, she was pretty beaten up, broken nose and other facial bones, crushed ankle), but I would have at least looked at a photo array and said "that's not him". She knew him personally.
My husband used to work for the sheriff's department and has a gun. We lock our doors now because the AB did enter once while we were asleep and left, just moving stuff around. It was spooky. It breaks my heart. I don't know how I became such a pariah.
So, would having him evaluated for mental competency, in the hopes that it either gets him into rehab and/or he loses his power as a co-executor, how would that work?