Crazy you dont have to explain your recovery or program to anyone. My sponser used to tell me "take what you need and leave the rest." You are right where you are supposed to be.If and when you divorce your AH is your call.You come here for support and I support you no matter what you do.I'm not a big intervention guy because your AH needs to come to this place on his own or it doesnt work.That is my experience and I have been in a program for a long time.