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Old 02-06-2012, 01:52 AM
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TakingCharge999
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"Use the same door" lol one of anvilhead's best.

Redheadsusie, my EX also told me "I was going to be old and alone" -I am 30 and he is 27- then I realized HE IS THE ONE AFRAID/UNABLE TO LIVE BY HIMSELF! sorry for the caps but it was eye opening... he also said I would never find anyone else..

All sad manipulation techniques. I used to ask "how do you know?"

I wondered, if real lovers have that kind of conversations? I guess not.. I thought they are too busy enjoying life and each other's company.



When you are no longer around him you'll realize the difficult part was being around someone toxic, not dealing with life by yourself... a therapist told me "We are always alone anyway" ... in my life, there has been no worse loneliness than living with an abuser/addict/both.
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