blwninthewind

Of course you want him to have a better life.
but....
he lost you.
he lost his family...
and still he hasn't hit bottom.
an intervention won't get him there any faster.
if his sister wants to do one...fine...but you really don't need to have any part of it especially if your on NC.
I really don't know whether your kids are of an age where it would help or hurt...but I don't think I would let mine particiapate...
if he says no,... and he may....
they could go away with unmeasurable guilt...because they may feel like, maybe they didn't say enough or the right thing....they are kids...this isn't their place...they don't need to be involved in this.
I don't know that I would want my kids anywhere near that situation.