Originally Posted by
AWisJEKYLLHYDE 
Well...I just told her that I want a divorce. She started crying and said that I'm bailing out on her during the worst time of her life. She said that she would go to rehab or whatever it takes to save our family. It breaks my heart to think that I am her last hope and that I just turned my back on her. I'm so depressed that I don't know what to do. I keep fighting back the urge to call her and tell her that I am coming home. I still might. I don't know. This is one of the toughest days of my life!!!
None of us are powerful enough to be anyone's 'last hope'.
We just aren't.
As far as "bailing" on her...look at it this way: You're just getting out of the way.
As far as your relationship, you don't have to make any big decisions right at this moment.
As far as the safety of your child, I hope, hope, hope, you reconsider leaving him in that environment for one more milli-second.