Thank you everyone.
Yes i do have boundaries set. I did say something to her today and it was simply that this Has to slow down. she said nothin. but i do still have my boundaries and I am sticking to them I will not be married to an alcoholic. she knows that and I have said it from the start.
I don't want to walk away(I'm not at that point yet) but if push comes to shove I will.
its more the social aspect of drinking that she needs and she has to find some way to control / deal with that.
once again cheers guys you are all awesome
