i did the same thing, i was sober 5 months and decided my main issue was anxiety and i could help ease that with moderate drinking, after a week it was vodka straight all day every day. i'm hoping aa meetings will help me now that im newly sober again, but i can definitely relate to her decision and its outcome. i hope she decides to stop and seek help soon, but its really up to her. i could (or would) never stop no matter the consequences or how many people pleaded with me, it had to happen because i wanted it. go to the alcoholics annonymous website, they have tips on helping a loved one struggling with alcoholism. best of luck.