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Maybe you've hit your own bottom.
Why haven't you let him go? Because he is your son.
How do you do it? Maybe by realizing that it's either him or you.
Who are you going to choose to save?
And then...you save yourself. You CHOOSE to. And then you do whatever it takes, to do that. Because you've devoted 20 years of your life to trying to save him.
I have a 15 year old son. I pray that he does not follow the same path as your son. But if he does, after I have done everything I think I could have possibly done, I will save myself.
Al-Anon will help me do that. How do I know? Because it's helped other people, and from being in AA I know that taking suggestions works.
You will be in my thoughts and prayers today. If I have offended you in any way, it was not intentional. I am new, so if what I posted is wrong, find love, advice, and wisdom from any of the wonderful folks here.