Renegade
Can i just ask; is your husband currently active in his drug use, or is he in recovery and all this rage is now coming out?*
Since you said he was in NA I'm thinking he is off the drugs, but maybe I misunderstand
Other than NA is he receiving any psychological counseling for these emotional issues?
If not, is this something he might consider adding to his recovery plan?*
He seems to understand that marriage is 50/50 in terms of material assets, but it doesn't sound like he realizes that marriage is also supposed to be a partnership in heart and soul.*
Sometimes it is better to walk away with half of something and your freedom, than it is to be stuck with all of nothing.
Hoping peace comes your way soon
Kel