Good MG,
I am glad to hear you are listening to your head right now. But it still hurts so bad.
Right now if there is something you can do...do it. If you can't change it (like the situation he has put himself into) let it go. It will still be there when you eventually have a moment to break down.
We will all be sleeping on your couch tonight and taking lookout shifts. We are there!!!
Hugs,
JT