Originally Posted by
ElegantlyWasted 
Sounds like negative/histrionic attention seeking. Have had similar episodes and feel for you my brother. To echo some of the above posts; try not to let it affect you. How do we draw the line between Borderline and insecurities exacerbated by substance abuse? Are we sure its borderline or is this symptomatic of usual recovery?
She's dual diagnosis: addiction and BPD. In a way, I agree with you because the addiction and the BPD have a lot of overlap in terms of the behaviors. But in this instance, she's splitting.
I haven't reacted, nor will I.