Originally Posted by
anvilhead 
borderline personalities live at the extremes.....everything is either insanely magically perfectly wonderful OR it's THE most horrible abomination ever experienced. she does with EVERYONE, hon. you have not been singled out, altho it feels that way. it is NOT personal....it is how she is and who she is and what she does. and now you know.
i'm really sorry....you are a very tender caring soul....you did what you felt impelled to do with good intentions.....she is simply incapable of recognizing that or responding in any type of positive way.
...I know. I've read about it. I know it to be true. But to see it up close and personal...
You don't fight anger with anger. You don't fight hate with hate.
You can only fight those with love.
So, just as I did last night and the night before that, I'm going to pray to God and ask Him to protect her.