I never have filed anything against XAH. By the time I realized that what he was doing was abuse and r-, I'd been gone too long, no proof, just my word against his.
As for the next woman... XAH's GF has two young boys. XAH was not above using sly warnings about DS as a threat to get me to 'behave', I can only imagine what he'd do to 2 boys who aren't his. And he'd always tell me he'd never hit a woman. Well, DS and those 2 boys aren't women. But, she was at our divorce hearing and heard XAH admit to some of the sh-t he pulled. She has some warning of what he's like, it's not my fault if she doesn't believe. She's kicked him out 2 times already, but she's 'too smart and strong to fall for that.'
Sending hugs and wishing you continued strength.