Thank you all so much. I have continued engaging today and am heartsick. I shared something with them both that I have found useful from al anon and tried as best I could to be the bigger person, be diplomatic, take responsibility for my stuff etc... and one friend replied "whatever" and the other replied with "you are so ridiculous with your al anon crap that I can't stop laughing".
I feel like I am in freaking 6th grade with the mean girls.
What GROWN women act this way????
Oh and the one who said this also told me that it is perfectly natural to ALWAYS question whether someone is being honest with them and that she has every right to doubt my honesty.
This is the same woman who has a spyware program installed on her husband's cell phone that he does not know about.
I guess I knew her character a while ago already huh?
Un real.