Originally Posted by
anvilhead 
actually her going to rehab may hamper any efforts to get custody of the child as courts are often way to willing to see any shots at rehab/sobriety as a sign that the danger is passed. that's just my two cents. i commend you for putting that little one at the top of list and i hope and pray that a positive safe outcome is at hand.
Good point...nope we have given up on the idea of asking her to go to rehab. I already did that once with no reply. We're going to get evidence even if we have to hire a Private investigator.