((Zoso))
Sounds like you are doing a very healthy job of detaching and taking good care of you!
I learned alot about that in Al-Anon and reading the book "How Al-Anon works" chapted 11 - Detachment, love and forgiveness"
that some of my favorite recovery info!!
Keep up the good work - never forget YOU deserve the very best!
PINK HUGS,
Rita