Originally Posted by
Bianca105 
Fundamentally, drug addicts/ alcoholics just cannot be in a relationship. First of all, relationships involve socializing. That involves some kind of planning and showing up and being on time. Forget that. Also socializing (movies, dinner, etc) costs money, and he has all his money tied up somewhere else. But the most important part of a relationship is face to face quality time. Addicts are always busy copping, scoring, getting high, and coming down. You will be left with whatever scraps of time he can spare, if that.
Thanks for your words, going through the same thing, it is hard to be so attached and then lose that person, even if you know it is RIGHT. Read what I wrote to Quetzel. I think those things have made this last week more manageble. HUGS to you.