Laurie: when you say watch his actions what do you mean exactly? My biggest issue at the moment is him dealing with his detox and the constant complaining. He is in the hospital but is bothered by the fact that there weening him off too quickly. It's very hard for me to feel bad and I don't know what to say to him, because as much as I love him I don't feel bad that he feels sick. That may sound cruel but I cannot sympathize his situation.