I'm sure this is terribly difficult for both of you. Why not use this time as a time to work on yourself? How about going to AA or if that's too difficult a step right now, how about reading everything you can get your hands on about alcoholism? The very best relationship for both of you is both of you standing as whole, recovered people. I bit the bullet and walked into NA about 6 weeks ago. I could have also gone to AA, as I am an A also, but NA seemed more like home for me.
You will find kind, wise, accepting people there. It is anonymous, remember. Anyone who is there is there for the same reason you are. Please, take a leap of faith and work on yourself. You ( and your relationship) are worth it!