Mums now been released out of hospital yesterday afternoon after refusing all help offered to her from the NHS and has even refused home help while she settles back in her own home and gets use to the new medication she will now be on for life because of drinking (seizure/epilepsy).
That tells me that she is still in denial and not ready to stop if she has turned all that down. My Aunt left her left her last night and it wouldn't surprise me if the minute she went Mum went and bought drink (even though she has been warned about the risk of drinking on the new medication).
I got a message last night that the family think we should all rally round and support her by calling and popping in daily etc but I'm mad!she obviously does not want to stop yet or think she has a problem. I will support her 100% and give her all my energy but only the day she tells me " I did to quit".