((EnglishGarden))) - I'm pretty sure ((Anvil)) is without power
She lives outside Seattle, had e-mailed me that the power was flickering (snow/ice storm) and if she disappeared, they had lost power. That was early yesterday. She and Hank were stocked up on firewood, flashlights, food, and dog food for the "beasts"
(((Lookin))) - I'm really glad you came here with questions and a willingness to learn about addiction. I'm an RA but also am in recovery for being a major codie. I can say, that at 9 months, I was still trying to figure out my feelings and how to deal with them.
I'm not saying he's not ready, I'm just glad you guys are taking it slow. At the worst, you remain friends and that's pretty awesome! Just remember to take care of you and what you want. Some of us (ME!) have spent a looooong time waiting for someone else, only to find out a lot of time has past and we hadn't even noticed the other people who were there all the time.
Hugs and prayers,
Amy