Thanks, onlythetruth. I think I needed to hear that. I finally got most of my friends and family back after XABF and don't want to lose them, or anything, again.
I'm so sorry for your friend. I know that feeling, it's different when personality disorders are involved I think, makes it worse. XABF is BPD and has narcissistic peronality disorder with most of the traits of antisocial as well. These people are monsters that seek to destroy you, it's cruelty at it's finest.
I don't want that, that's letting them win. I hope your friend gets better.