90210, this is obviously just my personal experience, but indefinitely talk things out with my boyfriend. I think it's important to talk about it and be open, and he should be willing to do so, but sometimes getting him to do so is like pulling teeth. but it benefits you just like it benefits him, because no matter how you look at it, if you are going to stay together than his addiction is forever a part of your life too. I'm going to start a form of couples counseling with my boyfriend I do hope, that way we both learn to communicate better about it. these are just my suggestions, but no matter what, talkin is most definitely important. hope this helps!