Originally Posted by
lostbutterfly 
I would love to tell them I have found a different way that works better for me, I don't drink anymore and never will, but I know I will just be a dry drunk in their eyes, so I don't say anything.
I think we owe it to RR to counter this.
The irony is is that their bitterness towards self-recovered people probably qualifies them to be labelled as the nonsense term "dry drunk".
I'd tell them about RR and if they respond by calling you a DD, simply say that you are sorry that they cannot understand this and that they can either try self-recovery for themselves or work on Step 6 to remove the flaw of bitterness.