Blindside08: Makes me feel a little better knowing that someone else has chosen a similar path to mine. The majority of the people around me I have either not told, or I have gotten a negative reaction aside from two people. So it is obviously not good to hear that someone else has to go through what I'm going through but it is comforting in a way. I think I'm going to stay with him right now as he is doing what he needs to be sober, like you said. I think I've known that but it is hard because it is a constant battle in my head. Part of the hard part is facing reality for me, what if everything is fine for the next ten years and then this all breaks down. I'm just very scared of the future. But I know that if I worry my life away I will probably end up in that boat. Thanks for sharing with me, it is helpful for me to talk to people in the same situation not just people on the outside looking in.