Part of my ex's charm was his looks and the physical attraction between us. It was hot and heavy until about the same time that I realized the extent of his drinking....then it became luke warm, then ice cold.
I am a little over a year out from divorce, 17 mths out from the start of the seperation and 21 months out from the begining of hte end. I am so afraid of the thought of my abilities in dating that I have decided that is not a good move until I have a little more confidence in my own abilities to trust myself.