To each thier own, and everyone is entitled to their opinion. I have heard people here tell me that I should basically let him go and live on the street, but he is my husband, and regardless of what others tell me, it IS my responsibility to try and help him. I took a vow to be there for him under the watch of God, and if addiction truly is a disease, it is not somehting he should go at alone. No one said his parents are going to baby him either, I just want to see if he is serious about recovery before bringing him around our child.I am strong enough to move past this if I have to, but for now, I am going to do all that I can to support him, as long as we are staying safe in the process. The more time I spend here, the more I am starting to feel like those who have been successful in recovery stay away from the message boards.