Originally Posted by
suki44883 
Why do you feel the need to do anything? It's not your job to monitor her drinking. If she wants to drink, she's going to drink. If she doesn't want to eat, she won't eat. We cannot control other people. Take a step back and MYOB.
I think I see what you're getting at. I never attended an ALONON meeting. Maybe I should. It would have done me good growing up with a junkie in my house. I found a good link here:
Mind Your Own Business - Al-Anon Meeting Topic on Mind Your Own Business